[ENG/RO]Ms. Choi states she will not marry Kim Hyun Joong + Dispatch reveals interview and text messages

Kim Hyun Joong's ex-girlfriend Ms. Choi stated in an exclusive interview withDispatch that she will not be marrying the idol star and actor despite her reportedly confirmed pregnancy. She also revealed text messages between herself and theSS501 member, sharing her side of the story. 

As previously mentioned, after ex-girlfriend Ms. Choi's lawyer confirmed she was pregnant, Kim Hyun Joong's agency clarified that he and his family's intention was not to assert she was faking her pregnancy but to check the condition of Ms. Choi and the baby as well as consult her family about the issue. KeyEast Entertainment then stated that Ms. Choi did not appear at an agreed hospital appointment between both parties. Her lawyer followed up by denying that Ms. Choi made a promise to appear.

The content of the Dispatch interview is as follows: 
Ms. Choi stated, "I don't understand myself either," commenting on why she decided to meet the man who she herself reported for physical abuse once again. She's also aware and understanding of the public's negative opinion of her and her pregnancy. As for the baby and any plans for marriage, Ms. Choi said, "I'm going to take responsibility for the baby. I will never marry Hyun Joong."

On the topic of Kim Hyun Joong and his family wanting her to prove the pregnancy, she responded, "Hyun Joong has never been suspicious of the pregnancy. He himself knows best whether I'm pregnant or not. He's the one who said he thinks he made a mistake first." She also shared that she decided to reunite with him in November of 2014, and they were together until the new year, spending the last two weeks of November on Jeju Island. 

Ms. Choi also stated that despite their initial breakup, Kim Hyun Joong sent her a birthday and flowers and showed up to see her drunk, resulting in a change of heart for her. She also commented that KeyEast Entertainment is trying to portray her as a calculating gold digger and causing a public fight. Ms. Choi then said that neither she nor Kim Hyun Joong expected the pregnancy, and both were confused by the sudden news as they had decided to end their relationship.

According to Ms. Choi, when she met with Kim Hyun Joong's father on January 6 of this year, the elder Mr. Kim made it apparent that he didn't want her to have the child, and Kim Hyun Joong apologized for his father's attitude. As for why she didn't meet with his parents for a hospital appointment, she explained that she felt pressured to go to a particular hospital and doctor, and because of the discomfort, she didn't give an answer and went to the hospital of her choosing. 

Ms. Choi also suggested that the reason she and Kim Hyun Joong broke up after their trip to Jeju Island was because he was seeing another woman. She stated that she found the woman's items in his bag. 

Below is a transcript of the revealed text messages:

September 7, 2014 (Kim Hyun Joong was called in by police as a domestic abuse suspect on September 2.)
Kim Hyun Joong (K): Have you run of beauty products yet? I only see things like that when I get on the plane. It seems about time that your makeup supply's gotten low.
Ms. Choi (C): I have everything. Why are you acting like you've always taken care of me?
K: You're talking like that again. I thought maybe you used everything you had before.

C: This isn't the time for you to be taking care of my beauty supplies.

K: It's nothing. It's not hard to do that for you. You miss me, right?

C: No.

K: Really? Not even 1%? I still miss you. I think I'm crazy. It's the end now? My heart isn't ready yet. I want to prepare what I want to say and meet up with you. If it's really the end, I want to do everything for you that I couldn't before.

C: It can't be helped. That's reality.

K: I really hope that you'll be happy. There will come a day when we can't even contact each other. Still, before then. At least keep in contact with me.

November 7, 2014

K: I sincerely congratulate you on your 31st birthday. I hope that at least today is a happy day for you and you receive a lot of blessings. I'm always sorry to you.

C: Flowers, I got flowers.

K: Do you like them? Do you feel like it's your birthday?

C: I like them. They're pretty, but you're not here.

K: I'm sending them because I'm not with you. Still, it put you in a good mood, right? I didn't write who sent them because your parents could've received the package. Just say a friend sent them to you.

November 30, 2014

K: I don't think this is going to end well. I'll take care of it myself now. You live the way you want.

C: Okay. Then let's go our separate ways, and take no interest in each other.

K: Okay. Let's go our separate ways. This is the end. But why are the dogs in this neighborhood like this? I got angry, but I have no one to send these photos to. I thought about it and send them to you. It's so funny.

C: It is funny. Did you eat?

K: I'm eating bibimguksu. Have you eaten?

C: I ate fruit. How's the weather?

K: The rain stopped, and the sun is out. Make sure to eat well.

January 9, 2015

C: I'm so upset.

K: Me too. It should be something to be happy about. I'm upset. Sorry.

C: I understand how you feel too. Though I wish it wasn't like this.

K: I'm so confused. When I get back from the army, the baby will be two years old. What to do then. Everything is tying me down.

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K: Did your ultrasound go well? I arrived at the airport.

C: [Ultrasound picture]

K: It's that dot. The black one.

C: Yeah, they said next time I can hear the heartbeat.

K: I see. Make sure to eat well, dress warmly, and don't drink. The hospital says it's 5 weeks?

C: Yeah. Almost 5 weeks. I'm still nervous and can't process this, but.. it must be the same for you.

K: I'm so upset that I can't even congratulate you. Even in a tough and painful situation like this.

January 10, 2015

K: Let's tell our parents later. I thought about it a lot, and it's still hard for me to handle. I need to think about it more. Please understand.

C: It's hard because you keep changing your mind.

K: I've never changed my mind. It's not like I can't go to my military service. I can't even see the baby grow. Marriage is not something you can do alone. I want you to think about it carefully too.

C: You won't be able to see the baby grow up anyway. You're considering throwing the child away or not, so what can I say about that.

K: Did I say I was going to throw it away? I'm going to raise it. Don't you think we should talk about getting married though? I don't understand getting married just because a baby's being born. I think everyone might be unhappy if we live that way.

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K: Okay, I'll marry you, but file a petition for me. Your husband is about to get a red line across his name. 

C: What are you talking about?

K: If I get fined like this, I'll receive a red mark. If I'm found guilty, my agency says I'll be considered a criminal.

C: You're saying you want to get married not because of me or the baby, but because you don't want to be a criminal?

K: No, I want to live the best I can if at least for our baby. I don't want to be pulled around by something like this again. Let's forget everything and start from the beginning. I'll do my best. I'll marry you and make you happy.
C: You should do well. Why are you suddenly being like this though?

K: I want to treat you well. I want to do well for you and the baby. Take care of the baby well, while I'm in the army.

January 19, 2015

K: I'm going to bed now, but I have to say something first. I know you don't like A [undisclosed name], but it's embarrassing from my point of view. Don't you went overboard by sending women's products in the mail?
C: Is she in her right mind to leave something like that at a man's house? I just sent whatever was at your house. How do you think I felt when I saw those?

February 18, 2015

K: How is the baby? I want ot know. Let's talk when I get to Korea. I want to see my child.

C: [Ultrasound video]

K: It's so big now, and it's moving. Is your hospital the same one? Send me the most recent video.

C: [Ultrasound photo] The video where it's kicking is the most recent one.

K: How are you feeling? Are you at home? Don't move around too much.

C: Can you see the baby's nose by its side profile?

K: Yeah, I see it. Should we talk?

C: The hands and feet are moving too, but the videos aren't sending properly through text message.

February 23, 2015

Kim Hyun Joong's father (KF): If we do things one step at a time, there will be no problem. Don't worry and come over with your parents. Confirm your pregnancy, and let's work it out.

C: I've already sent over the pregnancy confirmation and ultrasound on February 14. Why are you insisting on that one [hospital]? I can show [the proof] to you at a close place or anywhere else. 
KF: I can't believe you based on just an ultrasound photo because you've proved yourself as untrustworthy to us. I'm wondering what reason you have to change words around so strangely.

C: I've never wanted that doctor. I'm scared that something will happen to my baby. You asked to see the documents, so we met and I showed you everything. I don't understand why you're doubting me. I think any hospital should be fine.

RO: Domnisoara Choi afirma ca nu se cacasatori cu Kim Hyun Joong+Mesaje

Fosta iubita a lui KHJ,Choi a dat un interviu exclusiv,ea nu se va casatori cu idolul in ciuda sarcinii.De asemenea a aratat mesajele dintre ea si KHJ,impartasind partea ei de poveste.

Asa cum am mentionat anterior, dupa ce avocatul fostei iubite,Choi a confirmat ca este insarcinata, agentia lui Kim Hyun Joong  clarifica faptul ca el si familia lui nu au avut intentia de a afirma ca se preface a fi insarcinata, dar pentru a verifica starea doamnisoarei Choi si a copilului si a se consulta cu familia ei despre problema. KeyEast Entertainment a declarat atunci ca Choi nu s a prezentat la o intalnire la spital convenita intre cele doua parti. Avocatul ei a continuat sa nege ca  Choi a promis sa apara.
 Intreviu:
Dna Choi a declarat: "Nici eu nu ma inteleg" comentand de ce a decis sa se intalneasca cu omul pe care ea insasi l a raportat pentru abuz fizic. Ea este, de asemenea, constienta si intelegere opinia negativa a publicului fata de ea si de sarcina. In ceea priveste copilul
si  orice planuri de casatorie, doamna Choi a spus, "am de gand sa-mi asum responsabilitatea pentru copil. Nu ma voi casatori cu  Hyun Joong."

Pe tema Kim Hyun Joong si familia sa doresc sa dovedeasca sarcina, ea a raspuns: "Hyun Joong nu a fost niciodata suspect in ceea ce priveste  sarcina. El se stie cel mai bine daca sunt insarcinata sau nu. El este cel care a spus ca,crede ca a facut o greseala in primul rand. "Ea, de asemenea a spus ca a decis sa se impace cu el, in noiembrie 2014, si au fost impreuna pana la noul an, petrecand ultimele doua saptamani din noiembrie pe Insula Jeju.


Dna Choi a declarat, de asemenea, ca, in ciuda initialei  despartirii , Kim Hyun Joong i a trimis de ziua de nastere flori si a venit  pentru a vedea-o beata, rezultand  schimbare iubirii pentru ea. Ea a comentat, de asemenea, ca KeyEast Entertainment incearca sa o faca ca o mina de aur  provocand o lupta publica. Dna Choi, apoi a spus ca nici ea, nici Kim Hyun Joong nu au asteptat sarcina, ambi fiind confuzi de neasteptatele stiria asa ca au decis sa puna capat relatiei lor.

Potrivit lui Choi, cand sa intalnit cu tatal lui Kim Hyun Joong pe 6 ianuarie a acestui an, domnul Kim a fost clar ca el nu  vrea ca ea sa aiba copilul, si Kim Hyun Joong si-a cerut scuze pentru atitudinea tatalui sau . In ceea ce priveste de ce ea nu s a intalnit cu parintii lui la spital, ea a explicat ca s a simtit presata pentru a merge la un anumit spital si medic,si din cauza disconfortului, ea nu a dat un raspuns si a mers la spitalul ales de ea.

Dna Choi, de asemenea, a sugerat ca motivul pentru care ea si Kim Hyun Joong s-au despartit dupa calatoria lor de pe Insula Jeju a fost ca el a fost văzut o alta femeie. Ea a declarat ca a gasit lucruri de femeie in geanta lui.
Ea a concluzionat ca e constienta de KeyEast Entertainment ca a protejat atat agentia cat si  pe Kim Hyun Joong  murdarind  numele ei. Prin acest interviu, doamna Choi a declarat  ca intentia ei ca si viitoare mama a fost sa si curete numele si sa isi asume responsabilitatea pentru copil.

Mai jos este o transcriere a mesajelor


07 septembrie 2014 (Kim Hyun Joong a fost chemat de cätre politie ca suspect in cazul abuzului domestic de la 2 septembrie)


Kim Hyun Joong (K): Mai produse de frumusete ? Ma gandesc al lucrurile de genu asta doar cand sunt in avion. Cred ca produsele tale machiaj s au terminat.
Dna Choi (C): Am tot. De ce te porti ca si cum ai avut mereu grija de mine?
K: Vorbesti asa din nou. Am crezut ca ai folosit tot ce ai avut inainte.
C: Nu este momentul pentru tine  sa ai grija de produsele mele de frumusete .
K: Nu e nimic. Nu e greu sa fac asta pentru tine. Iti e dor de mine, nu?
C: Nu.
K: Serios? Nici măcar 1%? Mie incă dor de tine. Cred ca sunt nebun. Este sfarsitul acum? Inima mea nu este gata inca. Vreau sa pregateasc ceea ce vreau sa spun si sa ma intalnesc cu tine. Daca e intr-adevar finalul, vreau sa fac totul pentru tine ce nu am putut face inainte.
C: Nu mai e nimic de facut. Asta e realitatea.

K: Eu chiar sper ca vei fi fericita. Va veni o zi cand nu ne mai putem contacta reciproc. Totusi, pana atunci. Cel putin tine contactul cu mine.


07 noiembrie 2014
K:Te felicit sincer pt cea de a 31 zi de nastere. Sper ca cel putin astazi este o zi fericita pentru tine si vei primi o multime de binecuvantari. Imi pare rau mereu fata de tine.
C: Flori, am primit flori.
K: Iti plac? Simti ca e ziua ta?
C: Imi plac. Sunt dragute, dar tu nu esti aici.

K: Ti le-a trimis pentru ca nu sunt cu tine. Totusi, esti intr-o stare de spirit buna, nu? Nu am scris cine le-a trimis pentru cs psrintii tai ar fi putut primit pachetul. Doar spune le ca un prieten le-a trimis.

30 noiembrie 2014
K: Nu cred ca acest lucru se va termina bine. Voi avea eu grija de asta acum. Traieste asa cum vrei.
C: Bine. Atunci sa mergem fiecare pe drumul lui, si sa nu avem nici un interes unul fata de altul.
K: Ok. Sa mergem pe drumuri separate. Acesta este sfarsitul. Dar de ce sunt cainii din cartier ca asta? M-am suparat, dar nu am pe nimeni carui sa trimit aceste poze. M-am gandit si ti le am trimis tie. E asa de amuzant.
C: E amuzant. Ai mancat?
K: Am manca bibimguksu. Tu ai mancat?
C: Am mancat fructe. Cum e vremea?
K: Ploaia s a oprit, iar a dat soarele . Asigura-te ca mananci bine.

09 ianuarie 2015
C: Sunt atat de suparata.
K: Si eu. Ar trebui sa fie ceva pentru care sa fi fericit. Sunt suparat. Scuze.
C: Inteleg cum te simti . Desi as vrea sa nu fie asa.
K: Sunt atat de confuz. Cand ma intorc din armata, copilul va avea doi ani. Ce trebuie sa fac atunci. Totul ma da-n jos.
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K: Ultrasunetele au mers bine? Am ajuns la aeroport.
C: [Imagine ultrasunete ]
K: E ca punct.Cel negru.
C: Da, au spus data viitoare pot auzi bataile inimii.
K: Vad. Asigurate ca manaci bine, ca te imbraci calduros, si nu bea. Spitalul spune ca sunt 5 saptamani?
C: Da. Aproape cinci saptamani. Sunt inca nervoasa si nu pot procesa acest lucru, dar .. trebuie sa fie la fel pentru tine

K: Sunt atat de suparat incat nu te pot felicita. Chiar si intr-o situatie grea si dureroasa ca aceasta.

10 ianuarie 2015
K: Sa le  spunem parintilor nostri mai tarziu. M-am gandit foarte mult, si este inca greu pentru mine sa ma descurc. Am nevoie sa ma gandesc mai mult. Te rog sa ma intelegi.
C: E greu pentru iti tot schimbi gandurile.
K: Nu m-am răzgandit. Nu e ca si cum nu pot merge la serviciul militar. Nici macar nu pot vedea copilul crescand. Casatoria nu este ceva ce poti face de unul singur. Vreau sa te gandesti la asta cu atentie.
C: Nu vei pute vede copilul crescand oricum. Te gandesti sa avortez sau nu copilul , deci ce pot sa spun despre asta.
K: Am spus eu ca vreau sa l avortezi? Am de gand sa-l cresc. Nu crezi ca ar trebui sa vorbim despre casatorie totusi? Nu inteleg sa ma casatoresc doar pentru ca aveam un copil. Cred ca toata lumea ar  fi nefericita daca traim asa
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K: Bine, ma voi casatori cu tine, dar depune o cerere pentru mine. Sotul tau este pe cale de a obtine o linie rosie pe numele sau.
C: Despre ce vorbesti?
K: Daca voi fi amendat , voi primi un semn rosu. Daca sunt gasit vinovat, agentia mea spune ca voi fi considerat un criminal.
C: Vrei sa spui ca vrei sa te casatoresti, nu din cauza mea sau a copilului, ci pentru ca nu vrei sa fi un criminal?
K: Nu,  vreau sa traiesc cat pot de bine,  cel putin pentru copilul nostru. Nu vreau niic de genul acesta din nou. Sa uitam totul si sa o luam  de la inceput. Voi face tot ce pot. O sa ma casatoresc cu tine si te face fericita.
C: Ar trebui sa faci bine. De ce esti asa dintr-o data?

K: Vreau sa te tratez bine. Vreau sa fac bine pentru tine si copil. Ai grija de copil bine, in timp ce eu sunt in armata.

19 ianuarie 2015
K: Ma duc la culcare acum, dar trebuie sa-ti spun ceva mai intai. Stiu ca nu-ti place A [nume confidential], dar este jenant din punctul meu de vedere. Nu ai exagerat prin trimiterea produselor pt femei prin e-mail?
C: Este intreaga la cap,de-si lasa lucruri de genul asta in casa unui barbat? Tocmai am trimis tot ce era la casa ta. Cum crezi ca m-am simtit cand am vazut alea?

18 februarie 2015
K: Cum e copilul? Vreau sa stiu. Sa vorbim cand ajung in Coreea. Vreau sa-mi vad copilul.
C: [Video Ultrasunete ]
K: E atat de mare acum, si se misca. Este acelasi spital? Trimite-mi cel mai recent videoclip.
C: [foto ultrasunete ] Videoclipul in care  loveste este cel mai recent.
K: Cum te simti? Esti acasa? Nu te misca prea mult.
C: Poti vedea nasul copilului din profilul ?
K: Da, il vad. Ar trebui sa vorbim?

C: Si mainile si picioarele se misca, dar videoclipuri nu se trimit cum trebuie prin mesaj ..

23 februarie 2015
Tatal lui Kim Hyun Joong  (KF): Daca facem lucrurile pas cu pas la un moment dat, nu va fi nici o problema. Nu-ti  face griji si vin o cu parintii tăi. Confirmati sarcina, si sa mergem mai departe.
C: Am trimis deja  confirmarea sarcinii si ecografia pe 14 februarie De ce insistati pe acel spital? Pot arata [dovada] intr-un un loc apropiat sau oriunde altundeva.
KF: Nu pot sa cred ca te- ai bazat doar pe o fotografie cu ultrasunete ,pentru ca te-ai dovedi a fi nedemna de incredere pentru noi. Ma intreb ce motiv ai de schimbi cuvintele asa de ciudat.

C: N-am l am vrut niciodata pe acel medic. Mi-e frica ca ceva se va intampla cu copilul meu. A ti cerut sa vadeti documentele, astfel incat ne-am intalnit si le-am aratat . Nu inteleg de ce va indoiti. Cred ca orice spital ar trebui sa fie bine.